{"id":60,"date":"2026-04-12T09:49:24","date_gmt":"2026-04-12T09:49:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/simplynille.be\/?p=60"},"modified":"2026-04-19T17:57:02","modified_gmt":"2026-04-19T17:57:02","slug":"hey-kan-ik-is-met-je-praten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/simplynille.be\/index.php\/2026\/04\/12\/hey-kan-ik-is-met-je-praten\/","title":{"rendered":"Hey, kan ik is met je praten?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Toen ik deze ochtend wakker werd en even mijn gsm checkte, stopte ik toch even bij \u00e9\u00e9n melding. Een berichtje van een vriendin van me&#8230; of ja, iemand die lange tijd een erg goede vriendin van me was. Helemaal niets ergs, onze levens liepen gewoon wat meer naast elkaar, dus de band is wat verwaterd. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#8220;Kan ik is met je praten? Er moet me iets van het hart en ik denk dat weinig mensen me zo goed zouden begrijpen als jij.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Ik schrok wel even, dat ga ik eerlijk toegeven. Maar dan begon ik even na te denken&#8230; Eigenlijk vind ik zo&#8217;n bericht best dapper. We zien elkaar nog wel af en toe, maar hebben al een goed jaar niet meer echt 1 op 1 gesproken. En toch heeft ze het gevoel dat ze hier op me kan terugvallen, en het gekke is&#8230; Dat is ook zo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Anekdote over mij: ik luister graag. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Zodra ik haar zie (waarschijnlijk maandag), gaan we even praten. Of ja&#8230; Zij gaat praten, ik vooral luisteren. En ik ben stiekem blij dat ik dat even mag doen. 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